Monday, December 31, 2012

A Brandon update

Since my last post, Brandon had his 20th birthday.  Brandon loves this time of year.  It starts with my birthday around Thanksgiving, then Thanksgiving, Brandon's birthday and Christmas.  Brandon does love getting presents, but he also loves all the traditions we have developed over the years and having friends and family around.  We invited Brandon's network, family and a few friends to celebrate Brandon's birthday this year.  It ended with a little impromptu music jam including a little Beatles music. 

Brandon's 20th birthday had special meaning for me.  When Brandon was 8 he had a swallowing accident at school.  EMS was called as was I. We both raced to the school as the teachers and nurses performed CPR.  By the time I got there Brandon was breathing, but had obviously aspirated on food.  This led to a long year where Brandon could no longer take in food or liquids through the mouth.  During the process of meeting with doctors and determining next steps, one of Brandon's doctors told me it was unlikely Brandon would live until age 20.  This was devastating to hear, especially for a mom trying everything for her son to be as healthy and happy as possible.  I took Brandon to several specialist to ask about this prognosis and those I consulted did not agree or disagree with this doctor's opinion.  I decided to ignore the prognosis and move on.  But it has been in the back of my mind for 12 years.  So, it was especially sweet to celebrate Brandon's 20th birthday this year and even more special because Brandon is healthy and happy right now. 
 
We then moved on to Christmas.  Brandon was very excited because we had planned to spend the two weeks he is off from school in Dripping Springs with me.  He was ready for Christmas break and a little mom time.  Plus, Brandon still believes in Santa and he was looking forward to a Beatles Christmas.  We had a great Christmas and Santa came through with those Beatles DVDs and books.  Both my mom and Aunt were able to come over and celebrate Christmas.  They are 91 and 92 and still happy to get out with the family.  My brother Jack came in from Italy and my brother Jim was here as well.  We drove around the Hill Country looking at Christmas lights, watched Christmas movies, listened to a ton of Christmas songs especially Bing Crosby and had a really nice Christmas. 


Our friend Kate and Brandon
 




Jim and Brandon at Christmas

But we were missing Brandon's brother Patrick who is now in Iraq for the next year.  We are hoping he is safe and careful.  And we are very proud of all the work he does with the Air Force.  Care packages will be in his near future. 

A little medical update - We received the results of the sleep study.  Brandon had a normal sleep night for him.  He slept as normal for him until he awoke around 5:00 am.  Brandon's neurologist read the sleep study results and was very surprised.  Brandon did not have one abnormal breathing/sleep/apnea episode the entire night.  Not one.  This is surprising since Brandon has low muscle tone in the trunk of his body, has had seizures the last couple of years and frequently can have congestion.  The neurologist said that it is normal to have up to five episodes in a night.  That is considered normal.  If he and I had a sleep study we would have at least one episode.  For Brandon to have "0" episodes is actually very unusual, but good.  However, Brandon did have an abnormal sleep pattern.  There are several stages of sleep, This is a good overview of the stages.  http://psychology.about.com/od/statesofconsciousness/a/SleepStages.htm.  Brandon went through stage 1 through 4 during the night with some awake episodes which is normal.  But Brandon never went into REM.  Again this was a normal night for Brandon.  I asked the doctor if maybe he just woke up or stopped himself from going into REM.  The doctor said that was impossible and that it is the brain that decides which stage a person is in sleep.  A person cannot alter those patterns.  It also means that Brandon does not dream and it might explain why Brandon had no apnea.  Apnea usually occurs during REM. It also means that Brandon does not organize his thoughts each night.  I am going to read more about sleep patterns, but the results were interesting to me.  Brandon has never had a full night's sleep since he was born and this helps explain why.   AND there is really no treatment. 

Brandon is also undergoing genome testing with the latest tests available in the quest for a diagnosis.  The latest test will look at all of Brandon's genes to determine possible diagnosis, future diagnosis and any carrier information.  I wasn't going to do any additional tests, but Brandon had more chromosome tests come back with abnormal information.  After meeting with Brandon's geneticist, I decided to move forward with the testing. We won't know the results for 4 months. 

As many of you know, Brandon is seizure free since May 2012.  He is also off 2 of his three seizure medicines.  The seizure medicine Brandon is on is Keppra.  Although we like the medicine, it has no liver damage side effects and Brandon has been seizure free; there are a few side effects we are seeing.  Brandon has started to pace (moving regularly) and he is grinding his teeth.  In addition, Brandon is losing weight.  About 2 pounds a month.  Brandon had gained weight while having seizures and on the other medicines,  He is now at a good weight for his size.  But we will have to monitor to make sure he does not lose too much more.  These side effects are all so much better than having uncontrolled seizures.  I wanted to mention this in case someone is thinking of changing seizure medicines. 

We are also working on Brandon's transition plan and I will have more info on this in my next post.  Thats all for now. 

Leah

Sunday, December 2, 2012

A Brandon and Patrick Update



Well it has been a while since my last post.  I have caught up on my sleep after coming back from Europe and in full work and Brandon mode.  I miss hanging out on the French Riviera.  What a life that would be.  Ahhh.  But back to Austin.  It has been crazy busy here.  I have been traveling some for work and starting the legislative process of reading all those darn bills.  
Brandon is now in month 4 of transition. In the weeks leading up to the trip to Europe, Brandon was very emotional about me leaving for 11 days with many days of crying and calling his mom.  It was really tough leaving.  But once I left and with a few text messages, Brandon did fairly well.  He was glad I was back and we were back to our routine.  The routine is for Brandon to stay at the condo during the week with Chris his companion while he is at school, and to come to Dripping Springs with me on the weekend.  This is going really well.  Brandon is happy, has not been emotional, and does not object to coming to either place as long as he knows in advance the schedule.  We all spend a great deal of time working on making sure we all have the same schedule.  Brandon has an IPAD and we have loaded Cozi on all of our devices to have a family calendar.  I am learning all his new apps.  I have also downloaded Autismate to see if we can use this app for modules helping Brandon with daily activity chores.  This will be my Christmas break project.  I wish I had a young computer geek hanging out here to help me.  Oh well.  
More good news!  With the help of Brandon’s transition team at UT, Brandon will start a new job at UT in January.  This is great because it meets many of Brandon's work requirements.  He will help sort and deliver mail as his main job and will get a great deal of socialization.  A Win Win for everyone.  We are working hard on Brandon interacting with other people, saying greetings, asking how the other person is doing, etc.  UT has a great environment for Brandon to develop job skills while working on socialization with peers his own age.  He will still continue one day at Seton and we will try to still work at the Beatles Show at Koop.  

Brandon and I went to Dallas over Thanksgiving to see Brandon’s brother Patrick.  I posted on the blog on 10/4/10 about Brandon’s brother Patrick.  Patrick is a really special kid.  Of course I still call him a kid even though he is 30.  Brandon really loves Patrick and so do I.  The day before I left for Europe, Patrick found out that he would be leaving to go to Iraq for military duty for a 1 year tour.  Of course Brandon, Patrick’s mom Peggy and I are all concerned, but we all support Patrick and his commitment to serving his country through the Air Force.  Peggy threw Patrick a great going away party in Dallas and we drove up to be with Patrick.  Brandon has his own way of communicating with Patrick.  I think they both just “get” each other and for Brandon he just wants Patrick near to him.

Patrick and Brandon chillin'

Brandon was glad to see Patrick and did not complain about the drive.  Patrick is also a major Dallas cowboy fan.  I wanted Patrick to have a great week with his mom and his girlfriend Kaitlin.  The company I work for (UnitedHealthcare) managed to get Patrick and Kaitlin great seats for the Thanksgiving Dallas game and I got Patrick, Kaitin and Peggy special passes for the pre-game (the day before) taping for the Red Kettle fundraiser and rehearsal of Kenney Chesney’s half-time show.  They all had a great time and I think it took Patrick’s mind off Iraq at least for a few days.  Here are some pictures.

 Patrick and Kaitlin

Patrick and Kaitlin with Charles Haley (I had to look him up)

We are all so proud of Patrick and hope he is safe during his tour.  I see lots of care packages in his future.  Patrick we love you and already miss you.  Take care of yourself. 
More later
Leah