A few weeks ago, I attended a memorial for a friend's daughter. I have known this family since Brandon started school in Dripping Springs in Kindergarten. They live close by. Although our kids have different diagnosis, in some ways they are similar. Both have been challenged with health issues early in life and have continued health challenges as they grew. So I bonded with this family.
Their daughter was two months older than Brandon, was so sweet and a joy to be around everyday she lived. As our kids grew, our families would rely on each other for friendship, social gathers, questions on symptoms, doctors, medical equipment, school, social services and support. They have been present at every hospital stay I have had with Brandon since I have know them. They feel my pain and I feel theirs. That is why the memorial was so significant for both me and Brandon.
It also brings love and loss so close to home. Brandon has been a fighter over the years and I am thankful for everyday he is here. When my friends lose their children I cant help but grieve as well. So I am trying to have a great mothers day this year. I think a great mothers day for me will include a little rest, a lot of hugs and a little mommie time.
This mom's day we have a lot of changes now and in the near future. It has been two years since I lost my mom. I really miss her around this time of the year. Brandon has 9 more days of school left. He will leave school and will be in the adult world by the end of May. Brandon has moved back in with me until he graduates. Brandon's longtime companion is leaving at the end of May and will be working on new exciting other projects. He has helped Brandon so much develop independent living skills and prepare him for this adult world. Brandon will be mainly in Dripping Springs after May with the exception of the Beatles Radio show and his job at UT. We have a whole new group of aides working with him starting this summer. I have Brandon's condo on the market. My oldest brother is leaving in May to go back to Italy after spending 6 months in the US. Major changes for everyone.
Good news. We are almost completely booked for the trip to London and Liverpool. Plane tickets are booked and paid for, festival tickets paid, and tour of the "all things Beatles" is almost finalized. Brandon is really excited about the upcoming trip.
I did ask Brandon what he was going to do for Mothers Day. He said "whatever you want to do I will do". I can't ask for anything more. I am one lucky mommy. Happy mother's day everyone.
More Later
Leah
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